They seldom approach anyone with distrust. They like to imagine the worst scenario in their heads even before it has happened and then worry to death about it. Their imagination often gets them into trouble. Pisces dread taking the lead on anything. However, if you ask them gently to guide you — they would eagerly help. Your Pisces is either really emotional who takes everything to heart.
Alternatively, he is detached emotionally and is a cynic. Pisceans are also known to throw the biggest pity party amongst all zodiacs. They do not like to be blamed for anything. However, on the contrary, they feel responsible to every ill that happens in the world. Although I reconize it's happening, I can't seem to stay away from him. He gave me affection and reassurance that I so desperately needed and they are very fun people to be around. The one thing that upsets me the most about him is that he kept talking about honesty right from the start and I am a very honest person And now that we broke up, when he decides to be mean, he says it was all bullshit and he was lying to me the whole time about ever caring about me.
A few days before we broke up, he said he was getting too close and needed to step back or he would just leave all together. I gave him a couple days.
He came over and we were together one more time, then I found out he'd been seeing her. He broke up with me when I confronted him. Now they're together, but like I said, he sees me about once a week. I asked him why he said he was getting too close and needed to just step back if he never really even cared about me and he says, "just to keep you close and prolong it". What does that even mean? Why would you do that if you didn't even wanna be with me?
Can a male pisces please explain this behavior to me. I need to know if he does care and was getting too close and got scared or if it really was all just a game and a bunch of lies. Thanks for your input. An honest gemini :. I have been with my pisces man for a long long time. The pros. He is nice, can clean and cook, kind, excellent father, good friend, smart, skilled lover, very knowledgeable, excellent listener.
Now the cons. He is mean revengeful, liar, cheater, bad money manager, lazy, procrastinator, doesn't like to work, doesn't like the responsibilities of bill paying, will spend his money and mine, gets mad if I don't say something right, very very sensitive, spoiled, did I say mean, doesn't like to be questioned, never apologizes, lives in the past, deflects, disappears but wants you to tell him where you are, insecure, needs needs time alone, smokes weed, smokes cigarettes, disregard for insurance costs, sensitive about my tone but speaks to me any way he wants, very hypocritical.
Wow by: Kelly I've just ended a 5 year relationship with a pises. I use to think it was me but now I fully understand that this is what he is like.
I've contemplated trying again and I've been the one who has said lets he has ignored me which is his way.
After reading this I will be running and running and never looking back! Thank you to everyone's comments it's really helped me :. I was talking to a pisces men he was trying to get with me for a long time.
So I give him mi number we started talking on the phone and I liked what we had in common so I had came And kicked with him. So like two weeks pass by we talk for so long I was rally filling for him so i end up having sex with him. So we have been going back and forth so a have been together for 3m. So he stop talking to him. About him.
I text him and he tell me that. I hurt him but I im so fucking mad at myself for leting a men fuck with mi mind like that. I do not like pisces men's. Let me tell you something, nothing happens without a reason. You have pathetic memories and are good at forgetting all your mistakes while going to some hate site exaggerating some one else's mistakes. Well if you are so damn good, just freakin buzz off and shower someone else with all your "love". Pisces boggles my mind. When someones vies for your attention and then turn away running scared is confusing only to come running when you walk away, it is a hot mess.
The trick is knowing the game and not riding that emotional roller coaster with them. They need freedom to to go with the flow of their hearts which is full of contradictions and inconsistency.
Nothing wrong with loving Pisces because they tend to be very caring people, but you still have to live your life and take care of yourself and not get so caught up in what they are doing or not doing, while still loving them without being judgmental. I am a Virgo woman, but I can identify with the Scorp women, because my moon is in Scorp. He pursued relentlessly me for 2 of them. Before that he was laying it on thick- telling me I was the most gorgeous, sexy and beautiful woman in the world and yada yada.
Constant flirting, texting, lots of deep convos. We made out one night and never went any further than that. Then all of the sudden he started being the biggest effing ahole I've ever seen in my life.
It ended really bad with me telling him to go eff himself. This was back in ' He even said he loved me. I told him I'd see him under the impression we would pick up where we left off hint: sex.
I've tried earnestly to seduce him. But he won't sleep with me. I think he may have performance issues and my sexual prowess frightens him to death. What a cowardly, immature, weak ass punk. I on the other hand will never speak to him again.
I don't deal well with teaser jerkoffs. Totally frustrated by: Totally Frustrated What's up with these Pisces men that for some reason "Do not want to complicate the relationship with Sex"!!!
As an Aries this is very frustrating for me. We party,hang out and pretty much behave like a couple when we're together but we're not a couple. YET if someone else looks at me in that way he gets jealous, will drop remarks if I speak of other men in 'more than friends' way. I don't believe he is gay, I know its not me coz i don't have probs attracting men and he has told me that he is attracted to me but that " his life is complicated and we are too emotional" WTF does that mean!
BUT still NO effing Sex!!! What is up wid dat?????? Anyone else have a similar experience please let me know coz I can't work this one out!! I have dated 2 pisces guys with the most recent being my ex. I am a strong woman and I think this comes across and attracts them but then they try to change me. I could not tolerate all the lies and cheating and detachment.
And then there is all this idealism and "want to marry you" crap that comes too soon in the relationship and is overwhelming and scary. Pisces men behave like sociopaths and their star sign is way over rated. With the last one even the sex was selfish and crap.
I told him so when we insulted each other and I gave as good as I got or worse. You don't upset a Scorpio and hope to get away with it without being stung! What really got me was the fact that I dumped him but he liked to imagine that he had dumped me!
What a freak! Im currently dating a piceas man, 10 years younger than me, a reall charmer who had completely swept me off my feet.
His 24, good looking and a good guitarist. I love this man but his playing around with my emotions with his coming in and out of my life. Last night we were at a bar, we gotten drunk and thats it, he started blaming me for his wrong actions, his drinking supree with me, he brought up the bad past I felt so small, I turned around and he had taken off with one of his friends to another bar.
I was meaning to take him home etc Im a capricorn whos in love with this man Im tired of bieng hurt and falling in love again was not on my side for this very reason. This is why 1 by: FishMan Those asking why would a pisces man worship you and be the nicest man you've ever met one day then cold, nasty and distant the next?
Well as a Piscean man I can tell you - and it has nothing to do with playing games or being mean for the sake of it. It is all to do with something that has happened inbetween to put the piscean on his guard. He is worried, insecure and probably feeling 'sick' about some issue from your world be it worry about another male friend or where you were last night etc. If you respond quickly and warmly to his 'fear' you will find your pisces man willing to relax and be his true self the nice person.
If you stand hard and fast, try to dominate him or tell him his fears are not worth answering you have effectively 'hurt him' in ways you won't even understand. As we live in a fantasy world much of the time, even the most trivial action or remark by you could be seen as deeper or meaning something by the piscean.
He has obviously spent days, weeks months 'worshipping' you and showing you he loves you - so when it comes his time to be reassured, no matter how irksome or repetitive it may seem, it's of utmost important to get the same love and respect back as pisces man dishes out freely and without request. I can't think of many men who strive to ally the fears of their partner more than a pisces - up to the point of us feeling mistreated, taken for granted or feeling our problems are dismissed.
When pisces is nice you'll not meet nicer, but if you mistreat them or fail to accomodate their deep thinking and search for knowledge you will alienate yourself from them. They will see it as an imbalance in the love ratio, regardless of how realistic that is. Pisces want to feel wanted and appreciated once they have opened up to you, and that includes taking any and all of their problems seriously and with a warm attitude that will soothe and calm their pounding heart, then they will be strong again and good for you.
The more often you are soft to them the more they will come to trust you, and not fear future incidents because they know you've got their back just as they most certainly have yours and probably had yours since day one!
I see too many comments here saying throw the pisces man away he is not worth it, and that is sad, because a pisces man can be a great lover, friend, companion and will be extremely loyal if he feels he is being treated with the same love and attention and respect he gladly dishes out with zero ego or motive.
This is why 2 by: FishMan It is this reason pisces men feel 'hurt' often by some colder or more 'realistic' female signs. Where as mutable pisces will bend and twist gladly to learn the ins and outs of his female partner, putting all his effort and mind into it, many fixed signs can't and won't do that back.
To many pisces it feels like talking to a brick wall to get a fixed sign to understand even the most basic of emotions. Many pisces requests or cries for help are seen as manipulative, moody or nasty or trivial and not worthy which couldn't be further from the truth.
Pisces are hard to understand and even hard to be I should know but I'm sure the majority are only trying to please and trying to find a peaceful middle ground for all concerned. They hang in there time and time again until finally they feel totally abused or taken for granted, they may still be full of love for you but they simply have to retreat to the depths either temporarily to rebuild their strength OR permanently if they feel you've done something unforgivable Cheat on them, betray them, do something really nasty to them then act as if it was the most normal thing and that he is over-reacting.
My best advice for any girl who genuinely wants to keep hold of a pisces man, and crucially keep hold of the NICE version of the pisces man is to ALWAYS keep your heart open, stay honest and be warm. And I guess a lot of women just can't understand that as they assume all men should just be like bulldozers without feelings, taking anything they dish out while complaining if the man does similar ie flirts with girls.
Also by: FishMan For many piscean men, when 'hurt' if they go cold or disappear it has very little to do with wanting revenge or to inflict pain on you - that would genuinely hurt them MORE if they thought they were causing someone pain, someone who genuinely loved them, we couldn't rest with that - we'd make it right so the other person could rest even to our own detriment..
Words are easy to hear but actions and support are what count to a pisces. Telling them you love them, then repeating the same 'bad action' again won't work. You have to show it, the same way men are expected to 'show' something to women to prove they love them. Fact is if a Pisces goes into hiding it's because they are not feeling great, nothing to do with mind games maybe but would only be short lived, half a day if longer it's because they are genuinely doubting you even want them around, they are probably feeling like someone who is unlovable and unlikable and it will have come from your reaction to his problem or worry.
We generally do not think of ourselves as god's gift to women so even small issues can cause us to doubt ourselves - you can see that as weak if you like - but it's what gives us a great sensitivity and capacity to care and put others first, up to a point, where other men would be selfish and ignorant. If you want want the pisces man can do best that few other men do, then you also have to learn to respond differently to them and remove the stubborn 'mind games' exterior you may have built up over years dealing with other men.
I've said enough and this thread looks like the kind of place a pisces guy could get mobbed by angry women so I'll leave it there. Best for pisces man to get with another pisces girl or a water or earth sign.
Scorpio can be ideal IF they are not too strong willed and super independent to the point of appearing cold too often. Alternatively you can just forget everything I said and try your luck in your own fashion :.
I can respect that.. In the end true love wins. We have known each other for 3 years and have dated for 2 years. In the beginning everything was new, exciting, fun, adventurous, just like I like my life to be.
Then over time I started to notice somethings regarding his behavior and how he would handle his issues. He would mainly withdraw into his own shell to cope with his issues instead of talking them out.
This is something I am truly not use too. Recently, we just had an altercation where he took something minor and blew it out of proportion. He did not take ownership of his wrong doings, instead blamed me and crawled into his shell of not handling the issue.
After a couple of days I reached out to him and he stated he was glad I did, we needed to talk. We talked and he stated he love me with all his heart but he doesn't know if he could be in this relationship cause he doesn't like the way he blows up over little things.
After him being cold and me expressing how I truly feel emotional toward him he said we would work this out. Up and Down -- I have yet to call him.. His reply dont say that. Im very caring and patient and thought I met my soulmate.
This is the first time I have dated a Pisces. Do not know what to do, however as of know I'm pulling back. Any advice? Pisces Men? If you want my opinion I think firstly you should say what the fight was about. The 'minor' problem as you describe it?
It may well be it wasn't minor to him even if technically it seemed it. Pisces men work on feeling and instinct not cold hard reality or even facts sometimes. If they feel someone's intentions were not looking out for them they can withdraw or confront. There could be a number of reasons he's saying that, even using it as an excuse, or just to 'protect' himself from further hurt.
My Pisces by: Aquarian Girl Responding back to the comment of what the argument was about. Friday we planned to go out to the movies. I rushed to leave a meeting, look great, and be on time.
When I arrived to pick him up he wasn't dressed or ready to go. I was heated but laughed it off. When we arrived to the movie of course the movie was sold out. He said he wanted to go nck home. I stated, he wasted my time. He lives 5min from the theater and could have purchased the tickets earlier.
He in turned said I was annoying. He had no care in the world for his comment. He also complained how he wanted to retire for the night at that moment and not do anything that night. Smdh once again I reminded him this was a waste and I asked to talk about what took place he wanted to leave out the car.
He then said he was done with the relationship. He exploded I decided to give him space to cool down I never saw him like that. After a few days he said he was disappointed in his behavior and he truly loved me. We went out but he was pretty silent and I was trying to figure out why? What did I do wrong. I will give him space, I definitely don't want to lose myself in his rash decision making but I definitely don't want to lose him either.
Who knows how long this space thing will take place? Any thoughts They did not talk to you because they wanted to see if you will made the effort to talk to him first, making him feel important. It's not about mindgames or making someone 'work' for us, don't think we play hard to get at all. If someone goes silent on us, we assume they don't miss or or needed us in the first place. We do not assume they are hurting or wishing we would contact them.
So yes the majority of the time the non-piscean will have to make the first move if they are even bothered. If a pisces makes the first move it's because he really cares or really misses you but doesn't mean he will crawl back without that needed show of desire on your part too.
That is the key to getting pisces man to respond, be honest and loving and don't play games or hide emotions. Bastard by: Anonymous Omg everything said on most previous comments are pretty much accurate!
I've been with a pisces man for 3years and 7months we've just separated a week ago. He was the most charming man I'd ever met until the true colours come out. We lived together for three years in different states of Australia we travelled the world he made he met my whole family my family thought the world of him, I never once met his family as they lived overseas. I thought he was the one we had experienced so much together. The disappearing, unusual behavior, one minute sweet next minute he changes!
He ruined my life ge played mind games all the time! Look obviously I'm very mentally, physically and emotionally drained as Im still trying to understand and accept the fact that he's leaving me he basically said it's because he hates his life! I think that's just a excuse. I'm not saying all pisces men are like thus but I know for a fact I will never date or be in a relationship with one ever again!!!
He hurt me baddd.. We have character traits but everyone is unique! Some of what you said about him I can associate with but even the negative stuff isn't done as a piscean just to hurt you. He obviously has other issues NOT connected to him being a pises for him to want to leave for good. Of course I don't know for sure as I have no idea.
Not wanting to talk about his feelings is not always a piscean trait. I always talk about my feelings though depends on rising signs etc not just the sun sign. I've been with my wife for 14 years she is a pisces too. And as far as I know she is happy. You have to LIKE each other not just love each other.
Anyway sorry to hear you are feeling bad about it and hope you feel better before too long. Pisces can be very tricky yes but i'm telling you it does not come from selfishness but from insecurity or self doubt. Pisces are very empathic and considerate so long as they don't feel they have been talken for granted or taken advantage of. Your pisces sounds like he had deeper issues which could affect any star sign.
Pisces and Grief, by: SadLunar I would love some inside on how pisces men deal with grief. I have been dating this Pisces man for 8 months.
I am cancer. We started out just having fun together, none of us looking for a relationship. We had both just gotten divorced. After about a month he declared his love for me and said he wanted to be more, I was his perfect match.
We moved slowly, but as time went on he became more and more distant. About 5 months into the relationship his mother gets diagnosed with cancer, and her time left is unknown. He has no other family left, and is very close to his mother.
His world falls apart. Me being a cancer want to be there for him in every possible way. He comes by less and less, and one day I voice my concern for him and letting him know that I miss him, and that he can lean on me, I can handle it. He says he needs time to think. Well, as cancer I have a hard time letting go, I write him an old fashion love letter, letting him know my thoughts and feelings.
He tells me he loves me, but has to go, that he cannot do this. He does not want to leave me any hopes about a possible us in the future, He wants me to move on. But also says that he wants to have dinner and maybe travel together in 6 months, and see what that can lead to. I am so confused, getting a lot of mixed signal. I am so heartbroken, I know that I have said and done everything I could. He knows how much I care and love him.
I was not clingy, I am an independent woman with my own life, but I know that he could tell how much I wanted to see him more. Now he has cut all contact, and I don't know if he is doing that for my sake, so I can move on which I am not ready to do what so ever!
Im 37 and I have never in my life been more heartbroken. I know that Pisces need there space, and when they get in that dark space, it is not good. I also read that they are able to turn a switch on feelings, if they get too much.
I am wondering if he really wants 6 months of space, or if I should drop him notes along the way saying that I am there for him still if he needs me. Let him know that I still care. I have such a hard time understanding why he would not want the support. I had removed all relationship pressure. We were so perfect for one another… why let go of that? Please… Can someone give me an inside of a Pisces mindset when it all goes black.
Oboy by: lisa Ok I'm going to give it to u straight. U will never figure out what your pisces man is really thinking or doing. In truth he doesn't even know. And somehow, its your fault! And of course it didnt mean anything I'm a Taurus Nothing is real, remember they live for fantasy.
Pisces and Grief, by: SadLunar Thanks for your comment, I can tell that you are really hurt by the actions of your pisces man, and I am sorry for that.
I do not believe how ever that my pisces man is a cheater. He is warm and gentle and very giving. I was hoping for a deeper inside to how pisces deal with their emotions when grieving, if they are able to just turn their feelings off, for someone they really cares about, stuff them away, and "move" on… I get that that is probably impossible for him, to overcome the soon loss of his mother, that the hurt there he cannot run from, and has to face.
I am just really hoping that my Pisces man will come out of his hole of dark times, and realize that he needs me. Wondering if Pisces men do return to a loved one, able to admit that they do need them in their lives. I'm a Leo.. I just gotout of a relationship and he held his feelings in for me and didn't tell me he liked me Soon enough I gave in and we talked it all out..
I missed him so much and we gave it another shot.. I met his family friends again and other groups he was associated with.. Was be that was scared.. I was guarded and so scare to get hurt by him again.. I felt like we never gave the chance to rebuild our friendship.. I just wanted my best friend back I laid my heart out and still nothing..
I was so use to ignoring him and now Ifeel like he left again.. I feel empty.. I shouldve giving him the chance becauee he did all he could to make me Happy and I was beyond scared he was going to hurt me.. I miss him so much. I miss my best friend. The only love we know is unconditional and universal , nothing less than our soulmate will do And when we are hurt badly we loose ourselves and when that happens chaos is the outcome : the only way to heal after that is with the love of our soulmate I agree with the fact very charming at first.
We share a hm together big mistake! He will not leave. I'm so draind and miserable. I'm very unhapp y. I tell him that all the time! He loves to disapper to. I thank godgodwe r not married. Thank u guys so much! I'm a cancer women.
He does not know how to balance life btween fam and friends. I'm so embarrased I've been with him this long. I feel like I have been desparate. I feel like the man off thehouse. I'm looking into relocating far away. I am sooo turned off by him. I could care a less about good sex..
I want a real mature wholesome man. If people are true to their zodiac characteristics, that means they havent let Jesus change them yet. Zodiac characteristics are true, but only to people who havent reaped spirtual teaching.
Jesus teaching. Piscea and any other, zodiac sign that is true to zodiac characteristics ,they need deliverance from Jesus. From my experiance pisces are especially dangerous.
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Dates with a Pisces man are romantic, unplanned and magical. He will treat his partner with tenderness and respect, ready to jump into any new adventure, for as long as he is allowed to be what he is.
If he starts feeling pressured and forced into anything at all, he will feel the need to run off and create incredible dates for someone else. However social he might seem, a Pisces man is a loner.
Although he will be ready to take on any possible adventure, he will also like to spend some time at home, doing something creative that reminds him who he is.
He has a great need to express his creativity. Every Pisces man is a man on a mission, and he has to know that when he is gone, he will leave something behind. There are often too many expectations he sets for himself and he can have trouble meeting any of them, getting lost in irrelevant things to avoid dealing with his own inner disappointment.
He is caring, tender and sensitive, a kind of man who nurtures his feminine side and because of this he has the ability to listen, compassionately approach his partner and understand the feelings of everyone around him. His biggest minus is his inconsistency and his unpredictable character. No one knows what he will feel tomorrow, and his relationships could fall apart in a day, without any obvious reason.
A Pisces man likes attention given behind the gift. He wants to feel loved and cherished, and this can be done by creating anything to express how you feel.
He is not someone who wants to get a book for his birthday, or a technical gadget he will not be able to use. You can always go with soft materials, things he can touch and smell, for his senses to awaken. This is a man who will appreciate a drawing as much as a soft piece of clothing, or a pair of socks, for as long as attention is being given and he feels appreciated.
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